In the first two month he (suffering from dementia) liked to hold my hand whenever we walked around at night. But he took away his hand when I tried to hold one finger. After the first month he allowed me to hold his SEL 19 while I was feeding him at supper. Last weekend it was the first time that he could relax when I hold his SEL 19 and every single finger on the same side. I have NO idea if it helps him, because dementia is such a tricky thing! But I’m so happy to see that he starts to trust me on an other level than with his mind! He doesn’t remember me as a person but now his energy remembers me!